Parents Make A Difference

Creating a safe environment for children and teens to thrive is the responsibility of all Texans, but parents play a special role in standing up for and with our youth.

As a prime influence on a child’s life, it’s important for parents to know about the harms of underage alcohol use. Knowing the facts helps parents make decisions that protect their children.

The Facts

Alcohol is the most commonly misused drug among Texas youth. While some people may view underage drinking as a harmless rite of passage, there are actually many serious consequences associated with underage alcohol use.

  • Youth who start drinking alcohol before age 15 are four times more likely to have issues with alcohol dependence or misuse as adults.
  • Underage drinking increases the risk of physical and sexual assault.
  • Alcohol use is a key contributing factor to teenage suicide.
  • Underage drinking can affect brain development in a way that has life-long effects.
  • 1 in 5 teen drivers involved in fatal car crashes has alcohol in their system.

Talking with Youth

Have the Right Conversations

The fact of the matter is, parents have a huge influence over their children’s future drinking habits.  Research shows they are the main reason why young people choose not to drink, making it even more important for parents to start talking to their children about alcohol at an early age.

Tips

Use these 5 Conversation Goals from the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) to help jump start your discussions:

  • Show you disapprove of underage drinking.

    Parents are the number one reason why young people decide to drink or not. Your children are listening, so be clear with your messages.

  • Show you care about your child’s happiness and well-being.

    Let your child know you care about their happiness, health, and safety. If they know you’re on their side, they’re more likely to listen.

  • Show you’re a good source of information about alcohol.

    Establish yourself as a trustworthy source of information so your children are coming to you – not their friends, the internet, or the media – to learn about alcohol.

  • Show you’re paying attention and you’ll notice if your child drinks.

    Young people are more likely to drink if they think you won’t notice. Make sure they know you’re aware of and care about what they’re doing.

  • Build your child’s skills and strategies for avoiding underage drinking.

    The power of peer pressure is very real. Help your child build and practice skills to resist peer pressure for whenever they might encounter it.

For more resources and tips from SAMHSA, click here.

College Parents

A Parent’s Job is Never Done

Even though your student is headed off to college, you still have “homework” to do when it comes to educating yourself and your college student on the risks of underage and risky drinking. From understanding the consequences of such behavior to learning about what you can do to make sure your child’s campus provides a healthy and safe environment, you have the power to help your college student thrive.

The Facts

Alcohol use on campus can threaten your child’s health, safety, and grades. The first six weeks of college are an especially vulnerable time for students – young people are away from home without supervision, they want to make friends and overcome nervousness, student expectations and social pressures are high, and many new students binge on alcohol.

It’s important to remember that getting drunk isn’t a “rite of passage” that all students go through:

  • 57% of college freshmen say they haven’t used alcohol in the past 30 days
  • 33% of college freshmen report never using alcohol at all

But, underage and risky drinking are still problems on college campuses.

  • 43% of Texas college students say they have used alcohol in the past month
  • 60% of Texas college students say they have used alcohol in the past year
  • 35% of Texas college students reported binge drinking in the past month
  • Females report using alcohol at higher rates than males

Why the Concern

There are a number of serious consequences associated with underage and risky alcohol use. Alcohol impairs students’ decision-making skills, often in potentially dangerous ways. For example:

  • 1 in 5 Texas college students say they drive after drinking
  • 22% of Texas college students say they’ve ridden with a driver they knew was drunk
  • Students report engaging in unplanned and/or unprotected sex because of alcohol consumption
  • Alcohol use contributes to poor class attendance and failing grades – 22% of drinkers say they’ve missed class due to drinking

Alcohol also poses special risks for a young person’s developing brain and body.

What You Can Do

Talk to Your Student
Start by talking with your student about the risks of alcohol use. Talk about:

  • Friends. Discuss ways to make friends on campus without alcohol use.
  • Health & Wellness. Have conversations about the harmful effects alcohol has on the brain, body, health, and schoolwork.
  • Consequences. Remind your student that young people underestimate the negative effects of drinking, but often overestimate how many of their peers drink.
  • Resources. Share information about resources and support programs on their campus.

Let your college student know you care by setting expectations around ways they can keep themselves healthy and safe. And keep the conversations going! Just because your child is away from home doesn’t mean you shouldn’t talk often. Check in with your student regularly and let them know they still have your support.

Talk to Campuses
As a parent, you can also let schools know you care. For example, you can contact the Dean of Students at your child’s college and talk to their office about best practices for preventing alcohol misuse on campus. You can also make sure campuses have strong alcohol policies that protect public health and safety.

Creating and enforcing a strong campus alcohol policy is a critical step in addressing underage and binge drinking among college students. To help you gain a better understanding of campus alcohol policies in Texas, we analyzed the policies of colleges and universities in the state and created an online tool that allows you to explore different schools’ policies and identify areas for strengthening existing policies.

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